im having an I HATE THE MALE SEX moment
NOTE: i am in no way a feminist, i am just pissed.
i dont know why, but i decided to watch the cosby show today and the plot was that pam's boyfriend was all IF YOU LOVE ME HAVE SEX WITH ME and that kind of thing, one of those episodes thats intended to give a sense of pride and self-respect to black women. yeah i know, im not black, but same deal. seeing pam refuse to give it up to her man even if it meant he left her empowered me and made me even more pissed than i am at the male sex at present for reasons some know about but i will share if you really want to know, but it isnt anything to exciting.
it has been my experience with guys that they seem to think that they have permission to do whatever they want with whomever they want as long as they are drunk because we all know that alcohol is the ultimate excuse for everything. and once the unspeakable act is done its perfectly normal for the male to expect that he can succesfully return to his previous female by demonstrating his love with nice little letters (mia understands) and for awhile it does indeed seem quite nice. but you know what? back to the bill cosby show. pam was talking to claire, telling her about the love letters and gifts that sky was giving her and how she felt guilty for denying him sex because it was obvious that he really loved her. claire gave a whole GET CHO'SELF A REAL MAN black woman speech that again i connected with. screw the letters!!! cam can pull anything out of his ass and he thinks it will make it better. pfft no. ignoring it doesnt work either. and no, it is not okay to show up at the hurt female's parent-free house post-fight and expect the same kind of treatment they had before.
so i have decided, in true feminist fashion, that the male sex generally sucks. thank you bill cosby.
[edito]
i went back and read this and realized that it is incoherant babbling of a mad angsty teen. i apologize for putting you through that.
i dont know why, but i decided to watch the cosby show today and the plot was that pam's boyfriend was all IF YOU LOVE ME HAVE SEX WITH ME and that kind of thing, one of those episodes thats intended to give a sense of pride and self-respect to black women. yeah i know, im not black, but same deal. seeing pam refuse to give it up to her man even if it meant he left her empowered me and made me even more pissed than i am at the male sex at present for reasons some know about but i will share if you really want to know, but it isnt anything to exciting.
it has been my experience with guys that they seem to think that they have permission to do whatever they want with whomever they want as long as they are drunk because we all know that alcohol is the ultimate excuse for everything. and once the unspeakable act is done its perfectly normal for the male to expect that he can succesfully return to his previous female by demonstrating his love with nice little letters (mia understands) and for awhile it does indeed seem quite nice. but you know what? back to the bill cosby show. pam was talking to claire, telling her about the love letters and gifts that sky was giving her and how she felt guilty for denying him sex because it was obvious that he really loved her. claire gave a whole GET CHO'SELF A REAL MAN black woman speech that again i connected with. screw the letters!!! cam can pull anything out of his ass and he thinks it will make it better. pfft no. ignoring it doesnt work either. and no, it is not okay to show up at the hurt female's parent-free house post-fight and expect the same kind of treatment they had before.
so i have decided, in true feminist fashion, that the male sex generally sucks. thank you bill cosby.
[edito]
i went back and read this and realized that it is incoherant babbling of a mad angsty teen. i apologize for putting you through that.
posted by dana lynn at 11:23 AM
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Alcohol essentially is brain cell killing poison that is accepted by America as an excuse for everything from professing your lust for smurfette to driving a car into your neighbor's pool at 6 a.m. in the morning. I guess that's why guys can use it so freely as an excuse and what's the big deal with sex? I don't understand why everybody gets all like mad about it? You know, it's just like sex, yeah. It's, you know, just sex and that's it because sex is just like sex, nothing major, just wait maybe 22 years and not do "the unspeakable act" and you can hump fort the rest of your life and not ruin too many lives in the process.
Vman, I might not know you but I know that those are the words of someone who can't get laid. I give you my sympathy. When your time comes, youll understand what the "big deal with sex" is.
And to my darling Dana, screw Cam (not literally, of course, as you are fighting), when the babealicious Skylyn comes to visit you shall get even.
xoxo hoa
Wow. So apparently the Cosby Show not only presents a stereotype of a black relationship, but it's idiotic as well.
sarcasm myhoa!
It's easy to blame our shortcoming or problems on other groups, such as alcohol or the opposite sex.
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